12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like (Part-2)
Hey everyone! So, yes continuing with the next 6 Steps of 12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like. If you haven’t read the first 6 steps then you should first prefer reading- 12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like (Part-1). In Part-1, I’ve written in detail about – Being Comfortable, How Your Confidence matters, how and why to make a good conversation, why do girls like mature guys, possessiveness, and Patience. So, now let’s start with the 12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like (part-2) and continuing with Step 7.
7) Be Honest and Modest
I’ve personally experienced these things. Some guys are like, “Oh yeah, I am late, because there’s just no parking out there for my MERCEDES.” “My dad has this and that, I own a yacht or whatever bullshit.” If you think all girls are gold diggers then your ideology is so wrong my friend.
Trust me, you cannot impress every girl with your money, your cars, and your fake British accent.
Girls can always sense when you’re faking it.
Even when your walk is fake like some macho kind of walk that some guys do to get attention. No dude, this is not the way. I know guys who make fake conversations when they have nothing much else to talk about, so they lie around. She’ll be more impressed by you if you are honest and down to earth. That’s so simple.
8) Smell good, Speak clean.
Yes, a lot of guys care about grooming and fashion. But cleanliness is as a factor in your dressing sense
and your speech.
Talking about girls, they not at all care about t-shirt the guy is wearing is branded or not, as long as it is clean. If she walks to a person and if that person is a stink bomb, then that is such a huge turn off for them. So, just put on some nice pleasant smelling perfume. These small things will add a lot to your personality.
Nothing can Impress a Girl
more than a Well-groomed and a Good-smelling guy
Definitely give priority to grooming when it comes to cleanliness, but also don’t be that who doesn’t have a clean speech.
Now, what do I mean by this? See, all of us in this generation, we use cuss words. And this has become so normal today. So, there’s nothing wrong about it, until you overdo it. There’s a fine line between cussing for fun and then overdoing it. So, don’t use words like f**k or bhen***d after every sentence.
Just use this cussing thing to be funny and to make the people laugh and that is my point number 9.
9) Sense of Humor
Now, understand this. A sense of humor is not just about cracking jokes, it is also about taking jokes on yourself. If someone’s joking around with you, you should be chilled enough to take that joke.
People are attracted by happiness. People who crack jokes, first of all, he’s spreading happiness. Secondly, if the jokes are on you, then laugh.
Just keep an awesome smile on your face. Because every person likes someone who enters a room with a smile on his face.
Girls like guys who make them happy.
She needs to feel these two words: excitement and happiness, whenever she’s in contact with you. Why?
Because generally, life is boring, including the lives of people around her.
So, don’t talk about your shit, you’re not sad, not depressed, not a normal person. Instead, you are a bundle of joy
This is will make her brain register your presence as a source of happiness. What later happens is, whenever she is bored, in stress, or looking for a bit of excitement, her brain automatically reminds her of you, which will make her call you, hang out with you and so forth.
10) Be curious about her instead of being interested in her
As I said in my last post too, “don’t run after them”,
that doesn’t mean you start ignoring her. Be curious about her instead of being interested in her. The way she is supposed to feel is: he is interested in knowing about me, my life and how interesting I am.
Your curiosity will lead to more conversations and not flirting.
Instead of planning how to charm her, reading pick up lines off the internet, what you are getting is crucial information regarding how she thinks, what she wants, what she likes, is she interested in some guy, is she over her ex, does she love somebody, is she a psycho, is she after money, how important her career is to her and lot more.
a lot of people decide to get into relationships
because they develop a crush on a person, and therefore now it’s a pledge that they want to have that person. Dude, the relationship depends on your equations with her. A relationship is a long term. A crush is temporary.
11) Don’t be a Yes-man to her
A lot of guys project themselves as too soft and conforming to every single thing she says. They think the perfect way to a woman’s heart is by showing no resistance at all. That will land you in the friend zone. You’re a yes-man to her, you are ideal as a friend. That makes you uninteresting, boring and lack the ability to impress and surprise her.
Girls in their minds strongly judge guys on how they make them feel. You’re projecting to her that you are a nice guy. Being nice is not interesting
. Nice is pleasant but, it’s not turning her mind upside down, it’s not adding that want in her talk to you for hours and hours. You know why? Because every nice thought you have and are presenting to her, she has already thought of those and heard them from others. There’s nothing new.
People always want something new and people love those new things to stimulate their minds and make them think differently.
12) Respect her
The last and most important of all points is that, respect the lady. Just have some manners and respect for the girls. A lot of guys, a lot of time they objectify women, where they will treat women as things we want, like some championship trophy or a big achievement. A lot of guys get into relationships just because of how hot she is!
It’s not like that. They are human beings too, and guys need to understand this.
Also, girls are totally put off with a guy who does not treat a waiter, driver, or any professionally designated lower than him in a good manner. So, have some manners, respect and be a gentleman.
Women naturally get attracted to men who don’t run after them.
Why? Because that creates a secure space between you two, which makes her comfortable around you, which in turn opens up space for better conversations. See, the crippling thing about men is they are always trying and always looking for a window. Understand a simple thing: you are not the first guy to do that. You need to have some etiquettes like pulling the chair for her, opening the door for her and not interrupting her while she’s speaking. So, you need to slightly break out from the crowd, be a man and respect girls.