12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like (Part-1)
Guys usually have this question in their mind, how to set up a great first impression and make the girl you are trying to impress to think about you. Yes, today I’ve got something only for boys.
Let me first tell you, that to impress a girl and to get a girl you like are two different topics. I decided to combine both of them because most of the points are in common in both. And yes, this post is not for those f***boys who want to date a girl just to have s**. Also, this post is not gonna help to impress any gold-diggers. Because it is so simple to impress them by just showing off your money to them, nothing else matters to them.
But, if you’re willing to date a girl who doesn’t come in that category and is the real one, then yes, this post is for you guys. So, yes I won’t promise you that after reading this you will be able to impress every damn girl on this planet, because yes there are some girls who run only behind money, but still, there are many girls out there who’re looking for a real man. So, let us start with these 12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like.
1) Be Comfortable.
And yes, comfort comes from confidence. And there comes our point number 2.
3) A Good Conversation
So, basically conversation is just about two things:
2. If they ask you something, don’t be that person who just answers in one word or keeps it short. Let them know about your stories and interests too. But, when a girl speaks, just listen to her what she says so that you can catch her interests and ask her some questions back. Also, by listening to her properly you will get to know a lot of things about her and also her way of thinking and this will make you understand her better. And this takes us to the next point of “12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like.”
- Stable: Now, that doesn’t mean you have to be financially stable at the very moment you are talking to her, you have to be a millionaire or working at Google. No! It’s the vibe they get from you, which can be described as being ambitious. Everybody is ambitious, only a few take it seriously. Are you focused, aiming for big things, how confident and obsessed and sure you are toward your goals? That’s called mental stability.
- Self-respecting: Which means you stand up for your ideas, aren’t afraid to disagree and respect your life. Only when you respect yourself, the requirement for others to respect you arises. When you have a self-doubt, a girl can notice it too when they talk to you. I am not saying girls don’t date such guys, they do it very frequently. But the image of you stays in her mind. And the day she meets a guy who is self-respecting and appears mature to her, he will satisfy that requirement you never could. And that will create an attraction and she’ll eventually just lose that interest from you. that’s why many girls ask their guy to change because every girl has an ideal image of a man they want to be with and if you’re not satisfying it, then someone else would.
5) Don’t Be Possessive
Because it shows some level of insecurity to that girl and then comes the trust issues. If you want to leave a good impression, remember that the people like a person who’s just chilled. So, something like insecurity, being possessive it just goes way in the other direction. And a girl prefers to stay miles away from a guy who doesn’t trust her or tries to steal her freedom.
6) Have Some Patience:
This is a problem with almost every guy I have seen trying to impress a girl. They just want everything to happen the next day, or in the next hour. The trick of getting a girl is making her want you and the first step is by removing all desperation. If you are texting her every hour, trying desperately to create conversations, flirting continually, you are reducing your chances of ever getting her genuinely interested in you.
Maintain your mental stability. Stay on your feet. Test it out, if you don’t text her for a day, does she text you? Think about what you have learned about her from your conversations. Is this really what you want? Are you sure that her personality wouldn’t cause any problems in your life? Be mature. Don’t ever go in a relationship because your mind is overclouded with sex.
First, discover your honest intentions. Are you just pursuing this for sex? Is it because you’re desperate to have a girlfriend? Or maybe there is compatibility.
Whatever answers you find, accept them and then make your next moves. When you have some patience, it shows to her that you’re not desperate, you’re stable, you’re not crazy for her, and you have a life.
I’ll be sharing the rest of the points on “12 Simple Steps to Impress Or Get Any Girl You Like” in my next post. I am stopping here because this post is already getting too long. Share your personal opinions in the comment box. You can also, check out my last post “6 Signs Of Fake Nice People You Need to be Aware of.”